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  • What do we mean by Trauma
  • About Us
    • Our Vision and Mission
    • Testimonials
    • Clinicians
    • Peer Support Workers
    • Volunteers
    • Charitable status
    • Leadership Team
  • Difficulties?
    • I'm really struggling with
    • Anxiety and Depression
    • Feeling Numb
    • Child Abuse History
    • Addictions
    • Suicidal thoughts and behaviours
    • Anger and Rage after Trauma
    • Domestic, Family or Intimate Partner Violence
    • What is Sexual Abuse? >
      • Have I Been Sexually Abused?
      • Disclosing Sexual Abuse
      • Child Sexual Abuse
      • Male Sexual Abuse in New Zealand >
        • Facts VS. Myths
        • 17 Reasons
      • Sexual Harm
  • Services
    • Individual Counselling
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      • What are Peer Support Groups
      • Men's Trauma Chat group
      • Families & Partners
      • Males Affected by Suicide
      • Emotional Regulation
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        • Survivors of Family Violence
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    • Individual Peer support >
      • Who are Peer Support Workers
      • One to One Peer Support
    • Therapy Programmes >
      • Art Therapy
      • Music Therapy
      • Phase 1 Programme
    • Rainbow, LGBTQI+ & Takatāpui Services
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  • Resources
    • Blogs
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      • Our Research
      • Academic Research
      • Articles
    • Rainbow Takatāpui: Resources
    • Recommended Websites
    • Media Videos
    • Intranet
  • Professional Development
    • Trauma informed practice
    • Work in Peer Support Groups
    • Registration of Interest
  • Contact Us
    • Do You Require Urgent Assistance?
    • Tell Us Your Story
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Peer Support Team


Nik Sala 

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Good with people, I have found a calling finding work in creative and supportive spaces interfacing with people's disturbance and suffering towards some kind of amelioration, increased self understanding and agency.

Able to hold space for those living with traumatic disturbance and mental health issues, I have skills and experience working with Tangata Whaiora in creative or therapeutic environments and peer support roles (Vincents Community Arts workshop, Te Whare o Matairangi, Men and Trauma NZ, Whakamatutu), employing art as a tool for personal process and healing.

“In my place of work, I see many people work with tangata whaiora utilising art as a tool for engagement, hope, recovery and health. In comparison, Nik’s work with tangata whaiora is unmatched. The care, passion and love that he delivers through his art not only creates engagement, hope, recovery and health but a sense of humanity that can be lost a lot of the time when working with tangata whaiora.”

Former mental health staff member at Te Whare o Matarangi, Sara Tamati.

Coming from a background in personal trauma amidst unresolved intergenerational traumatic experience in my family and broader society, I am familiar with numerous mental health issues intersecting addiction, alcoholism, sexual abuse, suicide, anger and violence, bullying, divorce and
broken families, among others.


Madhuvanthi B M Vallaman

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I'm currently an Honours student in Psychology at Victoria University of Wellington, working towards my goal of becoming a clinical psychologist. I moved to Aotearoa New Zealand at the age of 25, so I’m still quite new here and bring with me the fresh perspective of someone navigating the early stages of migration. Coming from an Asian background, I’ve experienced first-hand the cultural differences and the challenges that come with adjusting to a new environment.

One of the most valuable things I’ve learned on this journey is how
deeply important social connection is—it has helped me feel grounded, supported, and more in touch with who I am. I’m really passionate about being part of a community that uplifts and supports each other, and I look forward to connecting with others who are also finding their way in a new place.


Timmy Li

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I’m studying Psychology and Education at Victoria University of Wellington and will be finishing my degree soon. I first came to New Zealand from Shenzhen, China when I was 14, and that journey has shaped a lot of how I see identity and belonging. I’m really passionate about mental health and that’s what brought me to Men and Trauma — I want to learn, connect, and give back where I can.

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