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    • Our Locations >
      • Our Auckland Team
      • Our Central Team
      • Our Wellington Team
      • Our Nelson West Coast Team
      • Our Canterbury Team
    • Our Leadership Team
    • Vision and Mission >
      • Charitable status
    • Who We Work With
  • Having Difficulties from trauma and abuse?
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      • What causes Trauma?
      • Effects of Trauma
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      • Child Abuse
      • Suicidal thoughts and behaviours
      • Intimate Partner Violence
      • Anger and Rage after Trauma
      • Anxiety and Depression
      • Addictions
      • Feeling Numb
    • What is Sexual Abuse? >
      • Have I Been Sexually Abused?
      • Disclosing Sexual Abuse
      • Child Sexual Abuse
      • Sexual Harm
    • Male Sexual Abuse in New Zealand >
      • Facts VS. Myths
      • 17 Reasons
  • How we help males recover from trauma and abuse
    • What is peer support >
      • Who are Peer Support Workers?
      • 1 to 1 Peer Support
      • Peer Support Groups
      • Peer Support For Sexual Abuse
      • Peer Support Enquiry Form
    • 1-on-1 counselling
    • Confidential Listening Service
    • Families & Partners of Survivors
    • Tell Us Your Story
  • Rainbow, LGBTQI+ & Takatāpui Services
    • Will This Service Be Right for Me?
    • What Questions Can I Ask A Counsellor?
    • ​Frequently Asked Questions
    • Rainbow Takatāpui: Resources
  • Resources
    • Academic Research
    • Recommended Websites
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    • Media Videos

Trauma, Sexual Assault and Addictive Behaviour

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Sexual assault and alcohol or drugs often go hand-in-hand. The same is true for sexual abuse and addictions, including substances, sexual complusiveness, porn use, gambling and others.

​Substances can play a role both before and after unwanted sexual activity. People involved in sexual violence or sexual aggression are often under the influence of drugs or alcohol. In the aftermath of sexual abuse or sexual assault, alcohol and drugs can be a way for victims to numb the emotional pain, shame, guilt, and fear they feel.


Sexual abuse is considered an adverse childhood experience (ACE). The more ACEs, the greater vulnerability to alcohol addiction or drug addiction. Some research has found that sexual abuse as an ACE is one of the strongest predictors of future substance abuse. People who experience child abuse of any kind, may drink alcohol or use drugs as coping mechanisms. This can be a way to self-medicate the emotions and difficulties that stem from an ACE. 

Common emotions and issues tied to sexual abuse and addiction include:
  • Guilt and shame
  • Anger
  • Depression & Anxiety
  • Distrust
  • Low self-worth
  • Hopelessness
  • Sleeping problems
  • Disordered eating
  • Intimacy issues
  • Gambling
  • Porn use
  • Sexual acting out

Using substances to mask these issues can quickly lead to drug or alcohol dependence.

Getting help for Sexual Trauma and Addiction
Addressing the emotions and fears stemming from trauma, sexual abuse or sexual assault is difficult but can also be relieving and empowering. To overcome the unhealthy coping skills that you’ve used as survival tools, you must explore the underlying issues that are contributing to substance abuse. You also need to develop healthy ways to cope with triggers and challenges.

Men and Trauma can help you make sense of your addictions and recovery from a trauma informed approach.

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