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  • Difficulties?
    • I'm really struggling with
    • Anxiety and Depression
    • Feeling Numb
    • Child Abuse History
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    • Suicidal thoughts and behaviours
    • Anger and Rage after Trauma
    • Domestic, Family or Intimate Partner Violence
    • What is Sexual Abuse? >
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      • Disclosing Sexual Abuse
      • Child Sexual Abuse
      • Male Sexual Abuse in New Zealand >
        • Facts VS. Myths
        • 17 Reasons
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      • Who are Peer Support Workers
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      • Phase 1 Programme
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    • Trauma informed practice
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Clinicians

Our Clinicians

Available In Person:  Auckland / Northland / Wellington / Central Nth Island-Taupo / Taitoko, Levin / Manawatu / Canterbury / Otago-Wanaka / Southland

and/or Remotely nationwide

Richard Jeffrey - Therapist

Location: Wellington
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I am an experienced trauma therapist with a long-standing commitment to supporting people affected by trauma and abuse, including extensive work with male survivors. Experience spans people of all ages, genders, sexual orientations, cultures and communities, including Māori, Pākehā, Pasifika, African, Asian, Disabled, Rainbow, Kink and Refugee communities.

Areas of expertise include Somatic Experiencing, emotional regulation, anger and dissociation, trauma and sexual abuse recovery, therapeutic peer-support groups, relationships, family violence, narcissistic abuse, and the impacts of discrimination and bigotry.

Professional experience also includes clinical supervision and student mentoring, alongside developing and delivering trauma education and Trauma in the Workplace training. Work has been undertaken across corrections, student counselling, suicide-related services, community development, police advocacy and court support.

My core philosophy is that helping people—particularly men—heal from trauma can strengthen relationships, whānau and the wider community.


Carlos Riegalhaupt - Music Therapist

Location: Wellington
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Kia ora, I am a NZ Registered Music Therapist with experience working in corrections, addictions recovery, and inpatient, outpatient and community mental health settings. I have a background in culinary arts, woodworking, permaculture, making musical instruments, live music performances, and community music events. I love nature, gardening, live music, and any creative expression.

As a therapist, my clinical work centers on supporting people who experience psychological, mental/emotional, behavioral, physiological, or neurological challenges. In my work I strive to provide culturally sensitive care to assist people in our communities in a way that is inclusive to all. I bring a non-judgmental, curious and compassionate presence to support the therapeutic needs and well-being of the participants and their whānau. My approach is collaborative, strength-based, values-driven, experiential, empathetic, and playful in the true sense of ‘playing with music’. I believe that highlighting the participants’ strengths while considering their cultural and personal values can strengthen the therapeutic alliance and support achieving therapeutic goals. I follow a humanistic approach to therapy, which emphasizes warmth, authenticity, humor, and appreciation for the uniqueness of every individual.

I am trained in Psychedelic-Assisted Therapy (PAT) with MAPS (Multidisciplinary Association for Psychedelic Studies) and IPI (Integrative Psychiatry Institute) in Boulder, Colorado. I have also trained in the Bonny Method of Guided Imagery and Music, serving as a foundational framework for the use of music as a tool for the exploration of consciousness and healing. I have a particular interest in the intersection of music, music technology, and exploring ways to enhance the power of music as a psychotherapeutic adjuvant in PAT.
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I feel fortunate to be able to use music as a tool to support people in our communities. I am passionate about exploring creative ways of using music to facilitate therapeutic processes and foster well-being.


Jonny Robertson - counsellor in training

Location: Wellington
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Institutionalised twice as a teenager, I have since had decades of experience supporting people from varied backgrounds to address challenges with substance abuse and accompanying mental health issues. I have a deep passion for talk therapy, the experience of relationship it can provide, and the potential that such a relationship can have to alter our sense of ourselves and others. I believe that regardless of our personal history, we each have great potential for change, and that a large part of this change can come about through the process of learning to become curious about ourselves.


Kazu Toyoshima - counsellor in training

Location: Wellington
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Kia ora, 
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I am Kazu Toyoshima, originally from Japan, I've been living in Aotearoa New Zealand for 20 years, a place I now proudly call home. 

My journey into counselling has been shaped by both personal experience and professional dedication. After working in the disability sector for more than 15 years, I've had the privilege of supporting people with a wide range of abilities, backgrounds, and needs. That work taught me the value of meeting people where they are and holding space for their stories with care and respect. My own experiences of trauma and grief have played a significant role in shaping who I am and the path I've chosen. They became the foundation for my commitment to a career focused on supporting people in need.  My work is grounded in empathy, respect and strong belief in the value of every person's story.


Holly Barnes - counsellor in training

Location: Wellington
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​Hello, my name is Holly Barnes and I am a counselling student at Whitireia.

​I have spent my whole working life in the social services as a youth worker, community support worker and a teacher aide. Through my own mental health struggles I realized how important it is to have good access to appropriate support and services. I have a passion for working with people with ASD, and other people who are neuro-diverse. I also spent time living in Karachi city and Istanbul as a young person and enjoy working with people from all walks of life and all different backgrounds. When I’m not studying or working I enjoy spending time with my whanau and friends. I'm an avid NBA fan and I love a good quiz night. 


Jonathan Beezer - Counsellor

Location: Wellington
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Life is often hard, and for many years I've found it enormously helpful to talk my problems through with a counsellor.

I have personal lived experience of depression, suicidal thoughts, significant mental illness, divorce, job loss, and more. I have also discovered the joy of facing my issues, taking responsibility for myself, and moving on to live a positive and fulfilling life. I would love to work with you using my experience and training to help you figure out how to get through your stuff.

Along with the primary issues we work with at Men and Trauma, I specialise in anxiety, depression, bipolar disorder, schizophrenia, and other common mental/emotional challenges. As well as relationship problems, grief, life goals, meaning of life, stress, work conflicts, and more. I am fond of CBT and broadly Rogerian approaches, however I favour choosing the techniques that will best fit your needs, in consultation with you.

I'm now in my 50s and jobs I've worked in include builder's labourer, steel factory shift worker, web developer, business analyst, university tutor. I have a Masters degree in sociology, and my unpublished PhD thesis was the basis for learning to overcome my bipolar disorder.  Peer support is a foundation of my approach. In this regard, I am also a board member of Kites NZ, a well-regarded peer-based mental health charity, and I was a past "consumer advisor" to the Wellington 3DHB before its restructure.

Complementing my work with Men and Trauma I run my own counselling practice.

In my personal life, I am a father to two awesome kids, and am passionate about music, close friends, cooking, and nature.


Chris Beattie - Counsellor in training

Location: Wellington
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With a background in crisis and trauma psychology and a history of working with the disadvantaged, the differently able, and with refugee groups, Chris is a volunteer counsellor with a passion for people and community. Having personal experience with trauma and neurodiversity, Chris believes that who we are and how we treat is each other is what defines us -  both as individuals and a species. 

With strong ties to the Rainbow and PolyAm Community, Chris has often worked in diverse environments and with members of minority communities.

A firm believer in fitting the therapy to the person rather than forcing a person to conform to the expectations of a particular therapeutic model, Chris utilises the principles of Client-Centred Practice and draws upon a wide range of modalities in his clinical work.
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A lifelong learner and education enthusiast, Chris has four degrees including a Masters of Social Sciences (Psychology) and is currently working on his fifth – a counselling and addictions practice course with Whitireia. He believes that life experience counts just as much as time spent in the classroom, and that each individual is the true expert on their own life​


Reace Cloete - Counsellor

​Location: Wellington

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​Kia ora, my name is Reace, and I am a volunteer counsellor with Trauma Recovery Aotearoa and a provisional member of the New Zealand Association of Counsellors (NZAC).

My work is grounded in a person-centred, holistic approach, where I aim to offer a safe, respectful, and non-judgmental space for people to explore their experiences at their own pace. I have experience supporting individuals with trauma, addiction, anxiety, and depression, and I value working collaboratively with each person to understand what support looks like for them.

I draw on narrative, motivational, and solution-focused ways of working to help people make sense of their experiences, reconnect with their strengths, and move toward meaningful change. My approach is flexible and guided by the needs, values, and goals of the person I am working with.
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Originally from South Africa and now living in Aotearoa New Zealand, I bring an awareness of cultural context, identity, and lived experience into my work. I am committed to ongoing learning, reflective practice, and providing support that is ethical, compassionate, and grounded in respect for each person’s story.


Sibaa Kaka - Counsellor in training

​Location: Wellington
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My name is Sibaa Kaka, I was born in Iraq, and I have lived in New Zealand with my family since 2015. I have a long academic and professional background in psychology and counselling, with my specialized interest in this field dating back to 2001. I studied psychology for three years and obtained a diploma in psychology and counselling, which provided me with a solid theoretical and methodological foundation for understanding human behavior, psychological processes, and individual and social dynamics.

In addition to my academic background, I have nineteen years of practical experience in counseling, during which I have worked with individuals facing various psychological crises and emotional challenges, including issues related to stress, trauma, and adjustment difficulties. This extensive field experience has honed my professional skills, enhanced my ability to bridge theory and practice, and enabled me to adopt counseling approaches that consider the human, cultural, and contextual dimensions of each case.

As part of my ongoing professional development, I am currently in the second phase of a counselling and addiction practice program. This program expands my expertise in addressing addiction disorders and supporting individuals on their recovery journeys, using established ethical and scientific approaches.

I am currently working with eight clients, providing them with professional psychological support based on my practical experience and ethical counseling principles, particularly those related to confidentiality, respect for human dignity, and building effective therapeutic relationships.

Furthermore, I am multilingual, speaking four languages: Assyrian, Chaldean, Arabic, and English. This linguistic ability is a significant asset in my counseling work, enabling effective communication with individuals from diverse cultural and socio-psychological backgrounds and a deeper understanding of the cultural and psychological context of those receiving counseling services.


Maximilian McCabe - Counsellor in training

​Location: Wellington

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Kia ora,
Life can be hard; things don’t go as planned and often we can feel like the odds are stacked against us. I have worn many hats in my professional life but the one thing I always come back to is relationships. I believe that in counselling we can find a commonality that can allow us to connect and grow. “We weren’t hurt by bad ideas; we were hurt in bad relationships. Therefore, we can’t be healed by good ideas, we can only be healed by good relationships.” – Carl Rogers

Growing up in Melbourne I always leaned on sports to keep me out of trouble, and that saying persists through to today. I am a keen sportsman, playing cricket, football and squash.

​I enjoy spending time with my friends and taking the time to be present with them. Somewhere in my 30’s I definitely picked up history as my mid 30s personality trait, I enjoy reading and watching documentaries to help me excel at a quiz night.
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Tom McGill - Counsellor in training

​Location: Christchurch
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Finding a counsellor and starting counselling can feel daunting. My aim is to offer a calm, respectful space where you can slow things down, make sense of what you’re experiencing, and feel supported without judgment. I am available for in-person appointments in Christchurch.

I am a counselling student currently completing a Bachelor of Applied Counselling at Manukau Institute of Technology and practising under external supervision. I work from a client-centred, trauma-informed perspective and value honesty, curiosity, and compassion in the counselling relationship.
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I have a particular interest in working with trauma and in understanding how early life experiences can shape how we relate to ourselves and others. I am committed to ethical, reflective practice, working within my scope, and engaging in regular supervision to support both client wellbeing and my own professional development.​


Joana Simmons - Art Therapist in training

Location: Wellington

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WHAT IS CREATIVE ARTS THERAPY?
Creative Arts Therapy is an evidence-based psychotherapeutic treatment using creative arts as tools for expression. Creativity—from painting and drawing to music, movement, sculpture, writing, and drama—allows non-verbal processing, empowerment, and community connection.

WHO IS IT FOR?
Everyone! It can support adults experiencing mental health and life challenges, those seeking wellbeing support, and community members navigating life transitions. Sessions can be 1:1 and in groups

WHAT CAN IT OFFER?
  • Alternative ways to process experience
  • Self-expression and agency
  • Community and connection
  • Building coping strategies and resilience

ABOUT ME
Joana Simmons, Master of Creative Arts Therapy student, Whitecliffe College. I am an empathetic, multi-faceted individual with experience across mental health, fitness, educational, and arts settings. I am committed to community mental health work and believe in the power of creativity to support healing and transformation.


Tim Giles - EMDR Therapist

Location: Bay of Plenty

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I’m offering research-based Eye Movement and Desensitisation Therapy (E.M.D.R.) at the trauma centre. This is known to be effective in Anxiety, Depression, and all aspects of debilitating trauma. Substantial relief can be made in 6-8 sessions.  I usually prefer to see people in person, but I can offer some sessions on Zoom. I can include other family members or friends according to the direction of the person seeking help.

I have been working in the mental health field for 40 years plus, and have accredited clinical qualifications in EMDR, Nursing, Narrative, Cognitive Behavioural and Family therapy. So can offer other treatment frameworks according to need.

My principal job in therapy, as I see it, is assisting individuals in seeing patterns of memories, thoughts, and behaviours that are short-circuiting wellbeing and the ability to do the things they want to. EMDR offers techniques to help neutralize the destructive power of intrusive memories. 



Jacqui Coulson - Counsellor in Training

Location: Northland
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Finding a counsellor and starting counselling can feel daunting. My aim is to provide a safe, respectful, and non-judgmental space where you can talk openly at your own pace and feel genuinely heard and understood.

I also work alongside adolescents in an educational setting and provide online counselling support for people experiencing dementia-related change, loss, and grief.

My counselling approach is person-centred, trauma-informed, and relational. I draw from a range of approaches including narrative therapy, cognitive behavioural therapy, creative approaches, psychoeducation, emotional regulation strategies, and reflective exploration.

I have a particular interest in trauma, anxiety, attachment, identity, and the ways past experiences can continue to shape present patterns and relationships.

​I believe counselling is not about fixing people, but about creating space for insight, understanding, healing, and meaningful change.

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James Sweeting - Counsellor in Training

Location: Auckland

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​"Kia ora! My name is James and I am a 31 year old Student Counsellor in Tāmaki Makaurau.

I am an ex-tradie that’s made the shift to mental health after learning how valuable mental health understanding is for men all over the motu. Many people are struggling constantly and often in solitude with their mental wellbeing so a lot of my interest is around how we can help each other break cycles of violence and silence among our men, learning how to emotionally regulate and help each other through talking, having a laugh, and being real.

I have experience as a client of counselling which is how I learned the value of having someone willing to hear you out and help you grow and change for your personal betterment. As a queer pacific-island tradie I understand what it’s like to walk in two worlds and have a strong understanding of collectivist cultures like ours and how it relates to western-based cultural approaches and thinking. I place a lot of importance on culture in my practice.

In terms of how I work, I like a Person-Centred, Narrative Approach, meaning I’m interested in your story and how you see things, and that’s what we work with in our sessions. I am also interested in Existential Therapy, Interactive Drawing Therapy and Solution-Focused Brief Therapy which we can discuss if and when we meet.

Modalities aside, the efficacy of therapy has been proven to be largely dependant on the therapeutic relationship and so if we click, we can start to do some great work together. And if not, there’s no need to worry as we can work together to find you a better fit so that you can begin to work towards finding some peace. 

Ngā mihi nui"


Kirstine Bowker - Counselling Intern

Location: Auckland

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Hi, my name is Kirstine and I’m a student counsellor based in Auckland.

​I know how hard it can be to reach out and ask for help. Life can be challenging, and sometimes having a safe, non-judgemental space and someone to truly listen can make a real difference.

It was through my own lived experiences that I embarked on the journey to become a counsellor. Having once been in the client’s seat myself, I bring understanding, empathy, and patience to my work.

My counselling approach is person-centred and relational. I integrate a range of therapeutic approaches, including narrative therapy, solution-focused brief therapy, interactive drawing therapy, emotional regulation strategies, and reflective exploration.

I enjoy supporting clients to identify their strengths, build resilience, and develop greater inner calm and confidence


Kelly Baxendale - Counsellor in Training

Location: Wanaka
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​Kia ora, I'm a counselling student completing a Bachelor in Applied Counselling with Manukau Institute of Technology. I've a passion to help people work through their trauma somatically, in a holistic way. Connecting with clients in a genuine way, creating a safe and non-judgemental space.

I've had my own healing journey through psychotherapy working on addiction, childhood trauma, depression and anxiety, which has led me onto a path to help create that for others. I believe that if you do the work in therapy, you can recover from trauma and be able to sustain a healthy life.

Being an avid snowboarder, I volunteer for the Adaptive Winter Sports Programme at Cardrona and support neurodiverse children on the slopes, making learning as fun as possible, when living with learning difficulties. I also volunteer for the Salvation Army as a community student counsellor.

Based in Wānaka, available online and in person.


Lorraine Sinclair - Counsellor in Training

Location: Taitoko 

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​​Tēnā koutou, nau mai, haere mai.

Ko te mea nui o te ao? He tangata, he tangata, he tangata.

I'm currently in my second year of a Bachelor of Counselling and Addiction Practice, and I feel incredibly privileged to be walking alongside people as they navigate life's challenges. One of the things I've come to appreciate is that no matter how someone's life may look from the outside, we never truly know what they're carrying unless we've had the chance to walk in their shoes. Every person's story deserves to be heard with curiosity, compassion and without judgement.

Before beginning my counselling journey, I spent more than 25 years leading people and complex projects across government, corporate and iwi organisations. Along the way I discovered that the work I loved most wasn't the projects—it was the people. Whether I was mentoring colleagues, supporting teams through change, or working as a life and wellness coach, I realised I was naturally drawn towards creating safe spaces where people could feel heard, understood and supported. Counselling felt like a natural next step.

My practice is holistic and grounded in relationship. I draw inspiration from Te Whare Tapa Whā, Te Wheke, and the wisdom of te ao Māori, recognising the importance of connection to whānau, culture, identity, spirituality, community and the environments we live within. While I am not Māori, I have had the privilege of working alongside iwi for many years and remain committed to learning with humility, honouring Te Tiriti o Waitangi, and practising in culturally safe and respectful ways. 
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Life has also given me the opportunity to travel extensively and experience many different cultures and ways of seeing the world. Those experiences have deepened my appreciation that there is no single "right" way to live, heal or belong. As the proud parent of Samoan children, I've also learnt firsthand about the richness that different cultures bring to our lives, and the importance of understanding people within the context of their whānau, culture and community.

I welcome people from all walks of life and have experience supporting and working alongside Māori, Pasifika, LGBTQIA+, neurodiverse communities and people navigating significant life transitions. My approach is person-centred, trauma-informed and strengths-based. I believe each person already holds many of the answers they are seeking; sometimes they simply need someone to walk beside them while they rediscover them.

Over the years I've gathered many tools into my kete through coaching, mentoring, lived experience, professional training and community service. Every person is different, so together we'll find an approach that fits you, your values and your goals.

Whether you're carrying trauma, navigating change, feeling stuck, or simply looking for someone to listen, I'd be honoured to walk alongside you for part of your journey.


Nadine Mackay - Counselling Intern

Location: Taupo

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​Hi, my name is Nadine and I’m based in the Central North Island.

Life can have its challenges sometimes but you don’t have to navigate the bumps alone. I’ve experienced my own bumps and I understand how difficult it can be to reach out and share your story because I’ve sat in the clients seat myself.

My hope is to provide an empathetic and compassionate space where you can speak openly without being judged, feel heard, and explore what matters to you. I believe that working through challenges begins with having the space to slow down and make sense of our unique and individual experiences.
With a background in male-orientated workspaces I recognise that many men have been taught to cope on their own. From this stems my particular interest in supporting men who may find it difficult to talk about what they're carrying.

I work from a client-centred perspective which means our sessions are about you and are shaped around your needs, style and pace. You don't have to have it all figured out - we can simply start with unpacking what's on your mind.

Alongside the things you might typically expect from counselling I believe respect, trust, relatability and a feeling of safety are essential, and a good laugh can also play a part in the healing process when it’s needed.

I’m a student affiliate of the New Zealand Association of Counsellors (NZAC) and work within their Code of Ethics, as well as actively engaging in ongoing professional development and regular independent supervision.

Whether you're feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or simply looking for a confidential space to chat things through, I’m committed to holding your story with the care it deserves and look forward to working alongside you.

​I’m available online with flexible hours, or in person by arrangement.

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