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  • Home
  • What do we mean by Trauma
  • About Us
    • Our Vision and Mission
    • Testimonials
    • Clinicians
    • Peer Support Workers
    • Volunteers
    • Charitable status
    • Leadership Team
  • Difficulties?
    • I'm really struggling with
    • Anxiety and Depression
    • Feeling Numb
    • Child Abuse History
    • Addictions
    • Suicidal thoughts and behaviours
    • Anger and Rage after Trauma
    • Domestic, Family or Intimate Partner Violence
    • What is Sexual Abuse? >
      • Have I Been Sexually Abused?
      • Disclosing Sexual Abuse
      • Child Sexual Abuse
      • Male Sexual Abuse in New Zealand >
        • Facts VS. Myths
        • 17 Reasons
      • Sexual Harm
  • Services
    • Individual Counselling
    • Men's Peer Support Groups >
      • What are Peer Support Groups
      • Men's Trauma Chat group
      • Families & Partners
      • Males Affected by Suicide
      • Emotional Regulation
      • Men and Relationships >
        • Survivors of Family Violence
      • Men's Sexual Abuse PSG
    • Individual Peer support >
      • Who are Peer Support Workers
      • One to One Peer Support
    • Therapy Programmes >
      • Art Therapy
      • Music Therapy
      • Phase 1 Programme
    • Rainbow, LGBTQI+ & Takatāpui Services
    • Fees
  • Resources
    • Blogs
    • E-newsletter
    • Publications >
      • Our Research
      • Academic Research
      • Articles
    • Rainbow Takatāpui: Resources
    • Recommended Websites
    • Media Videos
    • Intranet
  • Professional Development
    • Trauma informed practice
    • Work in Peer Support Groups
    • Registration of Interest
  • Contact Us
    • Do You Require Urgent Assistance?
    • Tell Us Your Story
    • Make an Appointment
    • Who can I see?
    • Peer Support
    • Professional Referrals
    • Feedback
    • Testimonials
    • Ways You Can Help
    • Complaints

Tell Us Your Story

You can tell the story of what happened to you - in confidence

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At Men and Trauma, we have decided to create a completely confidential platform for guys like you to tell your story of child abuse, sexual abuse or anything else. All in your own words. You will never be named or personally identified. This is your moment.

Most New Zealanders are stunned when they learn that 1 in 6 Kiwi males have experienced sexual abuse. Surely that can't be right? It is. 

If you are one of these guys, chances are you have locked your experience deep down amidst feelings of utter degradation and total shame. The truth? It wasn't your fault. Male sexual abuse is 100% the calculated blame of the perpetrator - never the victim.

Again - It was not your fault. 

We have a contact form below, where you can tell that story. We will then publish it on our website (again, you will never be personally identified). We want to hear your story, in your words.

​Please note, though all stories will be moderated for anything you may have accidentally included (such as names), apart from that you can tell your story exactly as you wish. Feel free to use strong language if you want to.

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