You can tell the story of what happened to you - in confidence

At Men and Trauma, we have decided to create a completely confidential platform for guys like you to tell your story of child abuse, sexual abuse or anything else. All in your own words. You will never be named or personally identified. This is your moment.

Most New Zealanders are stunned when they learn that 1 in 6 Kiwi males have experienced sexual abuse. Surely that can't be right? It is. 

If you are one of these guys, chances are you have locked your experience deep down amidst feelings of utter degradation and total shame. The truth? It wasn't your fault. Male sexual abuse is 100% the calculated blame of the perpetrator - never the victim.

Again - It was not your fault. 

We have a contact form below, where you can tell that story. We will then publish it on our website (again, you will never be personally identified). We want to hear your story, in your words.

​Please note, though all stories will be moderated for anything you may have accidentally included (such as names), apart from that you can tell your story exactly as you wish. Feel free to use strong language if you want to.

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