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    • Do You Require Urgent Assistance?
    • Make an Appointment
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    • Ways You Can Help
  • Who are Men and Trauma?
    • Our Wellington Team
    • Our National Locations >
      • Our Auckland Team
      • Our Central Team
      • Our Nelson West Coast Team
      • Our Canterbury Team
    • Who We Work With
    • Home
    • Our Leadership Team
    • Vision and Mission >
      • Charitable status
  • Having Difficulties from trauma and abuse?
    • I'm really struggling with >
      • Child Abuse History
      • Suicidal thoughts and behaviours
      • Domestic, Family or Intimate Partner Violence
      • Anger and Rage after Trauma
      • Anxiety and Depression
      • Addictions
      • Feeling Numb
    • What do we mean by Trauma >
      • What causes Trauma?
      • Effects of Trauma
    • What is Sexual Abuse? >
      • Have I Been Sexually Abused?
      • Disclosing Sexual Abuse
      • Child Sexual Abuse
      • Male Sexual Abuse in New Zealand >
        • Facts VS. Myths
        • 17 Reasons
      • Sexual Harm
  • How we help with recovery
    • 1-on-1 counselling
    • Men and Trauma Support Groups >
      • Trauma Survivors Support Group
      • Suicide Bereavement Support
      • Parents and Carers
      • Survivors of Family Violence
      • Mens' Sexual Abuse Support Groups
      • Families & Partners of Survivors
    • What is peer support >
      • Who are Peer Support Workers?
      • One to One Peer Support
      • Peer Support Group Meetings
    • Confidential Listening Service
    • Tell Us Your Story
  • Rainbow, LGBTQI+ & Takatāpui Services
    • Will This Service Be Right for Me?
    • What Questions Can I Ask A Counsellor?
    • ​Frequently Asked Questions
    • Rainbow Takatāpui: Resources
  • Resources
    • Academic Research
    • Recommended Websites
    • Articles
    • Media Videos

Tell Us Your Story

You can tell the story of what happened to you - in confidence

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At Men and Trauma, we have decided to create a completely confidential platform for guys like you to tell your story of child abuse, sexual abuse or anything else. All in your own words. You will never be named or personally identified. This is your moment.

Most New Zealanders are stunned when they learn that 1 in 6 Kiwi males have experienced sexual abuse. Surely that can't be right? It is. 

If you are one of these guys, chances are you have locked your experience deep down amidst feelings of utter degradation and total shame. The truth? It wasn't your fault. Male sexual abuse is 100% the calculated blame of the perpetrator - never the victim.

Again - It was not your fault. 

We have a contact form below, where you can tell that story. We will then publish it on our website (again, you will never be personally identified). We want to hear your story, in your words.

​Please note, though all stories will be moderated for anything you may have accidentally included (such as names), apart from that you can tell your story exactly as you wish. Feel free to use strong language if you want to.

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